The Birds & Bees Made Easy

Finally, a step-by-step guide to effective and nearly embarrassment-free sex talks based on your values (and research)!

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Like most parents you probably worry about the sex talks - when to start, what to say & how the heck to say it! Sound familiar?


Before kids, I was a sexual heath educator and counselor for over 16 years. I thought I’d be amazing at talking to my own kid about sexuality. Wrong! I was a hot mess. Hot. Mess. Seriously. It was ugly.

I was so surprised at how uncomfortable and clueless I was about how to approach the topic with my son that I set out to learn how to do it like a pro.

It turns out that talking to your kids about sex doesn’t have to be overwhelming or totally uncomfortable.

And then I realized other parents probably wanted to know how to have easy and open sex talks with their kids, too. So I created Birds & Bees & Kids and since 2005 I’ve helped 1000’s of parents, just like you, rock the sex talks!

If you want to be the best sex educator for your kids, then this is the place for you!

Three info packed talks to make you a sex talking rock star!

7 Easy Steps To Make “The Talks” Rock

In the very first module you’ll build a foundation for amazing talks!


  • How you are the most influential and important part of these conversations
  • How to make the talks a natural part of your family life
  • How to make the conversations reflect your family values

And much more!

The Magic Sex Talks Formula and How to Use It!

You’ll be ready to learn my simple formula so you keep the talks short, sweet and age appropriate.


  • My super-simple, practically magic sex talks formula
  • How to talk so your conversations are truly effective
  • An easy way to remember which area to focus on as your kids age

And a few other helpful tips!

Communication Tips & Scripts

Finally, you will be ready to learn the best ways to communicate with your kids!


  • The top three kid-researched strategies for having sex talks
  • How to stall before answering a doozy of a question (yay!)
  • Tips for keeping your kids safer from sexual abuse

And some other tricks to become your kids’ most trusted resource!


  • #1
    The Birds & Bees From Preschool to Middle School Video

    They should know EVERYTHING by the time they start middle school.

    This video explains what “everything” means – in detail:

    • How to avoid giving them too much information
    • What they need to know from birth to four; five to eight; and nine to twelve
    • How to avoid “loss of innocence” moments on the playground
    • How to keep them calm and connected while you chat about uncomfortable topics

    And a bunch of other important and helpful info!

  • #2
    The Top Questions from Real Kids

    Kids have questions about sexuality and relationships. Some they will ask, most they will not.

    This handout will give you insight into what they are wondering about from preschool to middle school so you can confidently answer their questions.

  • #3
    Instant Access to All of My Special Topics Webinars

    No need to sign up for my webinars, you can watch them anytime you want.

    Topics include:

    • Poison Porn – Your Kids and Porn (with Jo Langford, MA)
    • Girls & Sexuality: What Parents Need to Know
    • How to Raise Respectful Boys in a Sexualized World
    • Moms & Sons – Dads & Daughters
    • Gender & Sexualities
    • And tons of other topics!

Who are these talks for?!

Anyone who is a parent or caregiver that wants their kids to grow up to be whole healthy adults.

Or has kids age five to twelve.

Or both. ;-)

Maybe you feel embarrassed and uncomfortable talking about sexuality.

Maybe you have no idea what to say or when to say it.

Or maybe you just have no clue how to do this because your parents did a terrible job of talking to you.

Regardless, these days our world is over-sexualized and kids are getting tons of crazy and confusing messages about sexuality.

Because of this it's more important than ever to make sure they have healthy sexuality education now, so they can make great decisions later.

You don't want the Internet to be their main sex educator!

You don't want them to learn about sex from other kids!

You want your kids to share your values about sexuality and relationships!

You want to do a better job at the sex talks than your parents did!

The sooner you start the talks, the safer they are from making bad relationship choices, having sex too soon, and making you a grandparent before YOU are ready!

Sign up!

What are the next steps and how much does it cost?

Can you really put a price on your child’s health, safety and doing everything in your power to help them feel great about this amazing and confusing part of life?

Of course not.

You can enroll in “The Birds & Bees Made Easy” for $9 a month.

You will learn how to have open, effective and easy conversations with your kids about one of the most complex and important parts of life.

“WOW! Because I took Amy’s advice and started the sex talks when my girls were very young, I was their trusted resource throughout high school. I never thought I could have such open and honest conversations about sex and intimate relationships and be my girls’ trusted and primary resource throughout their tween and teen years.

Amy is the ultimate resource and her style has influenced my parenting in such a positive way. Her answers are always on-point, valid and a lifesaver. It all seems so natural under her tutelage.

Thanks Amy, for bringing a level of trust, openness and understanding to our lives that I didn’t even know could exist. I can’t even imagine where we’d be without her on-demand expertise.”

– Mary Jo, mama of 19 and 23 year old young women

As soon as you purchase you get a unique username and password where you can access the entire course. All modules are digital and downloadable. And your bonuses have been pre-loaded for you.

30 DAY Guarantee! BOOM!

I offer a 30 day, money back guarantee!

If, after completing the full course and doing all of the exercises, your confidence and comfort level doesn’t increase at all, email me and I will refund your money 100%.

The risk is entirely on me!

Here are some common questions about the course!

How old do my kids need to be for me to get the most out of this course?

If you are the parent or caregiver of kids of any age, there is something here for you. That being said, parents of kids ages 4 to 12 will probably find this course the most helpful.

How does it work?

After you sign up, you’ll receive email with the details for your private login information. Once you are on the site, you can start the first module or jump right to the bonuses.

You can start and stop and access the information for years to come.


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Don't take my word for it, see what my clients have to say!

Amy Lang helps educate parents with useful and realistic tools to talk to your children about sex and sexuality. This course is appropriate for parents with children of all ages: 3 - 20 years old! It is important that parents know that today's children are exposed to a different world than what they dealt with when growing up and Amy will guide you through this.

Internet, media, and modern day technology have given young children easy access to unhealthy sources about sex and sexuality and it is our responsibility to help them handle it and this is a big step to assist us. I have taken her classes and I am so glad I did!

A couple months ago, I was in the kitchen and I overheard my younger son ask his brother for a hug and a kiss. My older son (who is a sensitive soul) said "No, that's gay". I gently, but firmly, explained that when two adult men are in love, that is sometimes called gay and I pointed out that the word "gay" can be used derogatorily, and that if I ever heard either of them use it that way, they'd be in big trouble. They both said "Got it."

His brother ran upstairs and my older son came up to me and said " Mom, I've been do gay men have sex anyway? I mean, where do they put their penis?" Oh...uhm.

So I found myself explaining the mechanics of anal sex to my 11 year old. Apparently, there had been a discussion on the playground at school, and none of his friends could figure it out. I reinforced the rule about family conversations vs. things to share with friends. So far, so good, I think. No phone calls from other moms wondering what on earth we're teaching our kids.

I've shared this story with a few friends, and they are all amazed that I was able to have that conversation with him, and not freak out about it.

I owe it to you. I would rather have that discussion 100 times than raise a kid who doesn't know the facts of life and love.

I use the techniques I've learned from your workshops with my daughter, now 10, almost daily. She is so at ease and smart about her birds and bees info, it's just a normal part of life. Thanks!

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$9 month

3 Amazing Modules

Bunches of Brilliant Bonuses

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Peace of Mind

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